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It
is our desire that this web site be dedicated to children born with a congenital
heart defect, and to the families that love them.
Most
of the stories here are of children born with a very serious heart defect called
Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome (or HLHS). It is our hope that by sharing
these stories we may pass on all the hope, support and love that was given to us
during our search for information about what could be done to save the life of my
nephew. For many weeks we searched for other Australian families with HLHS
children and started to despair that there weren't any. It was a very lonely feeling
and my sister Joanne and her husband Peter thought that the only way to save their
son was to travel to America where the success rates for the three staged surgical
reconstruction was very good. Thankfully we discovered Melbourne's Royal Children's
Hospital also had a very good success rate and so that is where they chose to go.
It seems that in some states in
Australia surgery is not viewed as a very good option and often parents are encouraged
to either terminate the pregnancy (if diagnosed before 20 weeks) or to take the
compassionate care option and take their child home to die naturally. Whilst we
believe that the final choice is a very personal one to be made only by the parents,
we also believe that families should be given as much accurate and up to date information
as possible so as to make an informed decision. It is not an easy decision to make
and only as parents can you decide what you feel is best for your child. We can
not offer any medical advice in the pages to follow and that is not the purpose
for this web site. We can however direct you to where you may find the best available
information and for us that was the Royal Children's Hospital in Melbourne. This
is where most HLHS babies go to have the surgery necessary to give them the gift
of life.
Not all of these stories have happy endings but they do need to be shared in order
to show the whole picture of HLHS. For those little ones that are now in heaven
we wish to keep alive the memories of their short stay here on earth. They may not
have stayed long but they touched many lives and will continue to do so. I also
want to thank the parents of these babies as even in their grief they continue to
reach out to others, offering their love and support and praying that others will
not have to walk the path that they are now on.
If you have lost a precious child then please visit a special page we have for those
that are hurting just click on the heart to visit.
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There are also stories that will bring hope to the hearts of those that are only
just beginning on this journey. Perhaps someone having discovered that they will
be going to have a child with HLHS and longing to be able to speak or write to others
that have already traveled this road might happen upon our page. If that is the
case we do know that it's a tough journey and one that can get quite bumpy in places.
Sometimes the journey seems long and never ending but I know that Joanne and Peter
will tell you that they are in awe of the strength and courage that their little
boy has shown and that every step they take is one that is worthwhile. Joanne
and Peter would not swap him for anything in the whole world.
Although none of us knows the final outcome for a lot of these children one thing
we do know is that each parent that we have had contact with tells us just how precious
and special their heart child is. Those that have survived bring incredible joy
and love into the lives of their families. Some even tell us that if it were not
for the scar that their child wears as a badge of their courage, most people would
never know their secret.
So this page is for all of these special children both living on earth and those
in heaven, may they inspire you as they have me.
Deb Rennie.

When good friends walk beside us,
On the trails that we must keep,
Our burdens seem less heavy.
And the hills are not so steep.
The weary miles pass swiftly,
Taken in a joyous stride,
And all the world seems brighter,
When friends walk by your side.
Author Unknown
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Disclaimer
We have put together these pages to share our experiences with other people who have similar experiences. We are not doctors, and are not in a medical profession. These pages should in no way be a substitute for professional medical care or attention by a qualified practitioner, nor should it be inferred as such. ALWAYS check with your doctor if you have any questions or concerns about a condition
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